Give and Take

There was once someone told me this:

When you fall in love with someone,
you give him part of your soul,
just like sharing your piece of cake with him.
And if that someone loves you back,
he'll also give you part of his soul,
so you'll get back the piece of cake that you've shared with him.

But,
what if the person you love don't love you?
This is when we give out part of our souls to that special someone,
but he did'nt return us back that piece of cake.

Therefore,
this is when we're not whole anymore.
This is why we can't get back the love that we had given out.

Above are just some simple comparison to a piece of cake, but it gave me lots of realisations about my past actions. I realised that I've been heartless and cruel to persons who loved me dearly, but I can't give them back what they want from me.
I'm sorry.

I realised that I've not been a nice person. I let those who loved me dearly down. I broke their heart by saying words that never meant to be said.
I'm sorry.

I realised that I've been a dumb by not seeing those good things and advices that came to my faces. I turned them down and refuted with harsh and loud facts. Twisted and unreal facts to protect myself from being hurt.
I'm sorry.

I realised that I'm a really careless people. I just realised all these now. I'm not sure whether I could do something about all these but I really hoped to.
I'm sorry.

And lastly,
the ultimate lesson that I've learnt from giving and taking:

Appreciate what you have right now, and never to force things to happen. Those are meant to be yours will be yours, and those that are not, no matter how hard you strive for it, it'll never be wholy yours.

I thank these realisations. I hope I can do what I've promised myself here.

The Bliss of Solitude

I seriously think I have the potential to be a writer. Or at least a blogger. Since i enjoyed so much this afternoon, sitting alone in a quiet cafe with my lappy with cups of aromatic coffee. Guess I'll have sleepness night today. LOLX.. *_*

Things are going on quite well. I'm feeling better and i ceased to think too much. Everyday is just a pure bliss of solitude. After all, the only chaotic thing in my family had, what should i say, "partially" moved out, I was happy to have undisturbed sleep and countless free time to calm down my mind with some real good books and movies. =)

Daddy and mommy said I got Grandma lips. Reminded me of someone who said that to me once. They're bringing me to the doctor soon. I kept finding excuses to escape the visit. I hate doctors. Can't explain why. Maybe I've met too many doctors for my age, and it's better for me to stop seeing them again before I puke on them the next time I see them again for some serious matter. ROTFL.. =P

December is just around the corner. I wonder if he remembered what he said before. Hopefully he won't be the another who let me down. I have faith in him. ^_^

Lastly, Christmas is coming soon too. ( Yippiiieeee ~ ) Wish I can dream of Santa Claus tonight. If I can sleep. =)

Merry Christmas in advance !

Love Defined

Always,
We can’t be true to one, and we can’t expect others to be truthful to us only.
Always,
We would be lost, not knowing who exactly is the one we like the most.
Always,
We would be confused, we got seduced by thrilling things that happened around us, and we could not bear any obstacles or hardships that lie ahead of us.
Almost definitely,
We can’t be sure that our Mr or Miss Right would appear at the first sight, or at the right time.
And absolutely,
We can’t force the one we like to feel the same way as we do.
For all these reasons,
Would we stop chasing after our true love and happiness?

“YOU’RE THE APPLE IN MY EYE”

We are always expecting and waiting.
One day,
The one we like the most,
They would say this to us.

I'm Sick

I took in a deep breath when he told me. I whispered to myself “Everything is going to be fine; I’m perfectly ok with it.”

Who would think that I’m a weakling, with my body size and my constant laughing, nobody would ever expect that. But it just happened, and I could not do anything about it. Maybe it’s my fate to have this kind of experience, and I should just accept it. Turn after turn, my tears is no longer in sight. If destiny wants me to suffer before I get what I want, I would be happy to do that. I don’t want to fight, I’m tired of fighting.

But I’m not sad, for someone told me that he disliked negativity. I tried to cheer-up myself everyday, despite the pain that I have to take. I never showed any signs of discomfort in front of mommy and daddy, I don’t want them to be down. I want everyone around me to be happy; I don’t want them to share the same thing with me.

Sis came back. I started to sleep alone in the living room. I couldn’t understand why I can no longer share the same bed with her. Maybe it’s my sense of solitude. I need to be alone in the middle of the night, with the lights on. Daddy came and lied down on the sofa beside. I appreciate that, at least daddy understands my need to be alone, he came and accompany silently.

And lastly, you. How I wished I could see you, but the reality doesn’t allow me to. I really hope I can spend my Christmas with you. I’m sorry, I can’t believe it, because I’m not even sure that me, would grant myself this wish.

Good Luck in your studies. You’ll always have my blessings. =)

“Slow and Steady” is The Golden Rule for Every Relationship?

Mommy told me that every relationship should start with a close observation, followed by a period of knowing-each-other time and then go into the relationship. I’ve heard this so-called golden rule zillion of times, since people around me who looked up to this rule said that it is advisable for us to know a person before we actually move on to the next stage with that particular person. I know what they wanted to tell me, and right now I perfectly understand why they said that, but why I just can’t follow this “golden” rule?

Maybe it’s because of the sickness; I’m very scared of being alone. I used to be alone at home. Even now, which my mommy claimed that I’ve been MIA for almost 4 months and FINALLY came back home, my parents actually left me alone at home after 5 minutes I stepped in the house. ( Talk about feelings of disappointment huh? LOLX.. ) But I’m perfectly cool with that, since my mom and dad, very rarely, they are actually going out together. So as a filial daughter I should not interrupt their moments together, and I let out a sigh, and waved goodbye to them both. =X

And then, I was alone. At first it was fine, and later the stupid thunder came into the picture. And guess what, this is the moment I started to get panicked and scared, and my parents don’t usually bring their phones with them. ( Duhhh, what’s the use of 5 phones per family. ) Maybe you’ll start laughing at me, saying that “Walau you very timid lehh, thunder also scared. Go hide under your bed lahh!!”. And then I’ll reply and say “Okie, I’ll go hide under my blankie and cover my ears with my pillow.” But that doesn’t really works.

So this is the moment, when I feel I was all alone, cold and dark. This is the time when I remember back all my ex-es how they used to console me when I was scared. And also, this is the time I really longed for a man to come and give me a hug and a kiss on my forehead, telling me that everything will be ok. For a while I’ll cry, thinking that I got no one to call to during this kind of stormy night. But now, realizing that there’s no use crying over this kind of uncontrollable weather, I try to make myself braver. I’ll put on my earphone and on my favourite song, and I SING!! Although I’m still scared at least I can do something that makes me relax and ease my tension a little bit. Hopefully it will always work. =)

So I guess I’ve gone out of my topic. =P

Back to “slow and steady”. Knowing the reason why I tend to get into a relationship in an amazing speed, I’m now confused either sticking to my own way or follow this golden rules that everyone says that there’s definitely no harm leading this way. If I go with my old way I can get all the fun and thrill that I’ve always had in the beginning of a relationship, and I’ll get superb heart-broken at the end of it, looking damn pathetic and useless. Or I should follow what everyone says, take my time and slowly get into a steady relationship. Not so much of fun and thrill, but longer-lasting and less pain. I think I had the answer with me right now, in my head.

Long-lasting is my answer. And YES, I’ll wait till the day you say yes to me. ^_^

The Perfect Way

There's once a person told me, there's always a perfect way for everything.. The perfect solution for every problem.. but I've always wonder. Where is the perfect way for the obstacles in my life? I've look everywhere but seems that the so-called perfect solution is no where to be found.. So my question is, where the heck is the perfect way?

Just recently I’ve met a guy, who is very tall, gentle but naughty. When I look at him I see someone that I could never be, someone that I can never achieve in my entire life. And when I say this I don’t mean his height ( obviously =X ) but the way he carried himself in front of me and some attitudes that I see when I see him. I’ve never seen anyone like him, 21 but matured, know exactly what he wants and where is he going. And suddenly I feel so ashamed in front of him. The difference of 1 year old has such as large gap on us. In front of him I don’t feel like I’m 20 but 8, a girl who has just started to grow up and get to know this world. We are so different, so apart, and now I’m now even sure that do I have the rights to like him or even love him?

This few days I tried to contact him, but after 1 or 2 tries I gave up. I don’t know if he’s busy or what, but I just don’t dare to know the truth. I’m scared that I’ll get to know that he’s actually avoiding me, to avoid my feelings for me to turn deeper into something serious. And maybe, he’s right to do that, since he’s so wise and matured. Maybe we should not be in further relationship. The things that he had told me, about accompany me when I’m changing; maybe it’s just a mere promise from a friend, nothing more than that. And maybe I’m the one who’s thinking too much, all this while he’s acting as a friend, and I'm the only one who's take it so seriously and believe that he’s not the same like those I’ve always knew. And now, I know that, I’m wrong.

So what is the lesson that I’ve learnt from this? I’ve learnt that: The perfect way for someone to stop growing feelings for another person, is to stop contacting him or her, and avoid him or her as much as possible. I’ve tried it, and it works. It really works.

You =)

Will miss you during the holiday..
Gambatte for the rest of your semester.. =D
I will drink a lot of water, don't worry.. =)

* Happy Holiday *