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Monday, June 9, 2014

Lost, yet again

I thought I was happy. 

But when you have to compete with lots of other factors in reality, like career, family, friends, then you realize, you're not really important at all. 

But you can't place any blame, because that's acceptable generally. But am I allow to be selfish? Am I allow to throw tantrums and whine like a kid? 

I can't. I'm too egoistic to do that. 

He told me to just be myself. He was so calm. He sounded like if I were to mention about break up, he wouldn't mind at all. Or perhaps, that's what he wants? 

For 25 years, even I myself can't figure out what kind of person I am. I'm that confused. 

So be myself, means I camouflage into the person that the people around me want me to be. I people-please my life all these years, sometimes allowing myself to be a mischief, but always, I go back to the crowd. 

I am so fucked up right now that I don't even know what I want anymore. The moment I face any kind of hardship, I would assume that it's going to be over. 

When have I learnt to view things in such negative way? Why am I always prepared for the worst? 

Have I no value at all? Did I not possess any single quality that would make people around me need me, and appreciate me? 

What should I do? What else can I do? Can somebody teach me?